It is very important to understand that Emotional Intelligence
is not the opposite of intelligence, it is not the triumph of head over heart -
it is the unique intersection of both. Think about the definition of emotion,
intelligence, and especially, of the three parts of our mind -
Emotional Intelligence combines affect with cognition, emotion with intelligence.
Emotional intelligence, then, is the ability to use your emotions to help you solve problems and live a more effective life. Emotional intelligence without intelligence, or intelligence without emotional intelligence, is only part of a solution. It is the head working with the heart.
Emotional intelligence can be defined as the ability to respond optimally to situations instead of reacting through habit fear or impulse.